WOW Tom, where do I start? Sounds like you're about as big of a mess as I am! Hope u got that regulator on your truck replaced! Learned I was O- during my first pregnancy. Daughter #1 was O+, so I got a Rho-Gam shot after she was born. 2nd daughter was O- so I didn't need a 2nd shot. Is your daughter A- like you? Either way, your daughter's mother would NOT have needed Rho-Gam, if YOUR sperm was used in the in-vitro!